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Old 01-30-2013, 05:24 PM   #16
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Lmao I know that this is immature from a relationship perspective but I have to say OP that you sound like you are letting her condition you like a dog. If you are a good boy you get a treat. This is why it is better to be single nowadays and just do your own thing making you more attractive overall, that way you make the rules and if she doesnt like it then she knows someone will replace her


Your actually right, that's exactly what it sounds like.


I made it a point to make sure that my girl knows that if she isn't taking care of my needs as a man then i'm gonna get it somewhere else and i wont hesitate to kick her ass to the curb. And because she knows this she works harder to keep me around and to vie for my attention and affection. The less you give, the more she will put in
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Old 01-30-2013, 05:26 PM   #17
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yep, there is a reason that the #1 money maker for prostitutes is married men...they aren't getting any at home and they can't start another real relationship without ending their current marriage...many men are pretty much forced to go to a hooker if they want to have actual sex and keep their marriage.

That and the family courts WILL fcuk over any man. The family courts are so biased against men it's absolutely ridiculous
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Old 01-30-2013, 05:28 PM   #18
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Like I always say in these threads...

you have the *****. You are dominant. You should decide. That's not saying you should force her, but it should be your action that leads to sex. Your girl should never be refusing to **** you on some shit. That basically means she's not attracted to you. If she was... it wouldn't matter if she was mad.

Just the same with a girl... sometimes you might wanna be mad at a girl, but if you really like her, she goes right through it.

Now, I think a girl being hard to get is a good thing... but having to wonder IS SHE GONNA LET ME? Is some sad shit.

ISH RELATIONSHIP EXPERT ILLSMAK AIN'T HAVIN' THAT.

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Old 01-30-2013, 05:34 PM   #19
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Like I always say in these threads...

you have the *****. You are dominant. You should decide. That's not saying you should force her, but it should be your action that leads to sex. Your girl should never be refusing to **** you on some shit. That basically means she's not attracted to you. If she was... it wouldn't matter if she was mad.

Just the same with a girl... sometimes you might wanna be mad at a girl, but if you really like her, she goes right through it.

Now, I think a girl being hard to get is a good thing... but having to wonder IS SHE GONNA LET ME? Is some sad shit.

ISH RELATIONSHIP EXPERT ILLSMAK AIN'T HAVIN' THAT.

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That is truth. You echo my sentiments.

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Old 01-30-2013, 05:54 PM   #20
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Now, I think a girl being hard to get is a good thing... but having to wonder IS SHE GONNA LET ME? Is some sad shit.

I know you said being hard to get, but did you actually mean being hard to get or did you mean playing hard to get?
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Old 01-30-2013, 06:03 PM   #21
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I know you said being hard to get, but did you actually mean being hard to get or did you mean playing hard to get?
IllSmack seems to like a little rape.
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Old 01-30-2013, 07:06 PM   #22
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IllSmack seems to like a little rape.


Lol the only reason i really asked is i think no man should play a woman's stupid ass mind games. ie: the ones who like to play hard to get but are anything but that. I kick a b1tch to the curb faster than she can say the word when i know she's just playing mind games
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Old 01-30-2013, 08:03 PM   #23
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Once he starts sleeping entire nights we should be back to a more regular schedule I think...

Are you feeding him a full bottle at bed time? When my son was a newborn, he was driving us nuts in the middle of the night for months until we figured that out. Smooth sailing after that. YMMV...all kids are different
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Old 01-30-2013, 08:24 PM   #24
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In other words, does she keep score on how you treated her during the day, then decides on whether or not you're getting any?

Or does she just give it up, no questions asked?

I had a girlfriend once who would just give it up spontaneously. We'd be in t he kitchen at noon, and she'd just decide it was time to get it on. And she wanted it everyday, sometimes twice a day.

I married a different lady who now makes me earn it. If I was rude to her, I'm not getting any. If I was very attentfull to her needs, then I get some.

Sounds like an immature, petty, shitty, woman.
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Old 01-30-2013, 08:28 PM   #25
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Are you feeding him a full bottle at bed time? When my son was a newborn, he was driving us nuts in the middle of the night for months until we figured that out. Smooth sailing after that. YMMV...all kids are different
well she is breast feeding him but she tries to fill him up before he sleeps...we also try to keep him awake when we are with him during the day...

sometimes he will let us sleep until 6-7 AM, but most nights he wakes up once in the 4-5 range...and then sometimes even twice or three times throughout the night.

I feel bad for my woman, sometimes she just doesn't get any sleep, she is the one that has to get up and feed him.

I'll be happy when he is sleeping all night...that will be really nice
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Old 01-30-2013, 08:59 PM   #26
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Only a chick you're tryin to get with makes you "earn it." If it's your girl or you already hit before, what are you earning exactly?
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Old 01-30-2013, 09:05 PM   #27
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well she is breast feeding him but she tries to fill him up before he sleeps...we also try to keep him awake when we are with him during the day...

sometimes he will let us sleep until 6-7 AM, but most nights he wakes up once in the 4-5 range...and then sometimes even twice or three times throughout the night.

I feel bad for my woman, sometimes she just doesn't get any sleep, she is the one that has to get up and feed him.

I'll be happy when he is sleeping all night...that will be really nice

You're married and have a kid. I guess everyone has to grow up at some point I guess. (Not a jab at you...not too long ago you were chasing strippers and driving drunk.)

Congrats on the son man.

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Old 01-30-2013, 11:01 PM   #28
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You're married and have a kid. I guess everyone has to grow up at some point I guess. (Not a jab at you...not too long ago you were chasing strippers and driving drunk.)

Congrats on the son man.
Thanks...

I didn't think this would happen really, or I thought the odds were low because this style life was never my bag. me "growing up" has much more to do with sobering up than having a kid.



Plenty of "grown up" bachelors out there

And plenty of children with children


I'm going to be the coolest father on the planet though.
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Old 01-30-2013, 11:46 PM   #29
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Thanks...

I didn't think this would happen really, or I thought the odds were low because this style life was never my bag. me "growing up" has much more to do with sobering up than having a kid.



Plenty of "grown up" bachelors out there

And plenty of children with children


I'm going to be the coolest father on the planet though.

Yeah...I guess the right phrase would be settle down.

I'd consider myself pretty "grown up" but it depends on your definition of grown up.
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Old 01-31-2013, 12:18 AM   #30
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Yeah...I guess the right phrase would be settle down.

I'd consider myself pretty "grown up" but it depends on your definition of grown up.
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