Originally Posted by PWB15
You are 100% right and it was stupid
Quit halfstepping. If the reality is you're her maybe until something better comes along, this kind of behaviors is only going to land you in the same position with the next girl. Pull yourself together man. Don't run away. I know that's easier said than done, but try your best dude.
Everyone gets hurt. Everyone has been embarrassed. EVERYONE. Even the guy you quoted. That's just how it works.
How do you ever expect to let anyone love you when you're trying so hard to insulate yourself from anyone hurting you?
Listen to the good advice people have given you in this thread. Ask her how she's been, how Thanksgiving was. Be careful with texting though Reason being, you're kind of a passive aggressive douche and that's hard to self-edit out that kind of tone in your own writing... especially when you're already feeling inadequate or insecure.