Quote Originally Posted by The Iron Sheik
i don't think that's necessarily true. Women are actually pretty good at picking up on fake confidence. confidence doesn't mean you have to be loud and obnoxious. but if you're quiet, introverted and maybe a bit shy, you probably aren't approaching them as much, which is the key. women will usually never approach first

Yeah confidence for a woman could actually mean that you're not afraid to speak out and admit you were wrong or make a fool of yourself from time to time. If you're always in self-defense mode, you'll never be able to keep a woman.