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    Default Have any of you guys ever felt like you had no life?

    Here's my situation

    Two years ago my 2 best friends, my brother(we're not close brothers at all we barely talk) and I moved here to this new state. My 2 best friends(who were brothers) stayed for a year and left the state. So ever since the beginning of this school year (september) I've felt really alone.

    There aren't any people my age who live around here.

    It's not like I am an anti-social loser or something. I was pretty popular at my old school and had a lot of friends. In my new school though I had to start from scratch , I've made "friends" but none of them are close and I never see them outside of school.

    The reason I really wanted my crush to be my girlfriend is because I felt like I wouldn't feel lonely anymore. (But she rejected me if you didn't already know)

    Now I am pretty much alone in everything I do , When I come home from school Its usually just chill on the internet then I smoke weed take a walk for a few hours and play catch alone yes its gotten to the point where I throw my football in the air and catch it by myself because I have no one.

    The feeling of being alone is killing me inside and I feel like I'm missing out a ton in life.

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    Default Re: Have any of you guys ever felt like you had no life?

    At least you don't have Ebola!

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    Default Re: Have any of you guys ever felt like you had no life?

    Yeah sometimes, but then I just smoke another bowl and I'm fine with it.

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    Default Re: Have any of you guys ever felt like you had no life?

    Dude you need to go out or something. Do something to keep your mind off that girl.

    From what you said it didn't seem like y'all talked that much so why you simping?

    You should chill with brother too man. That's your blood, get to know him.

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    Default Re: Have any of you guys ever felt like you had no life?

    quit smoking weed and start doing real activities like going to the gym, playing pickup basketball, going to some book club in school.. well ok maybe not that but you get what im saying.. you will meet people

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    Default Re: Have any of you guys ever felt like you had no life?

    Quote Originally Posted by TheReal Kendall
    Dude you need to go out or something. Do something to keep your mind off that girl.

    From what you said it didn't seem like y'all talked that much so why you simping?

    You should chill with brother too man. That's your blood, get to know him.
    Its not really the girl im thinking bout , its the missing my friends and a little bit the girl.

    thats exactly my point i've done everything and still haven't met any close friends , i haven't even laughed out loud for such a while I can barely believe it

    I do go to the gym btw.

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    Default Re: Have any of you guys ever felt like you had no life?

    Get a dog.

    Good for companionship, can play fetch instead of throwing a ball in the air to yourself.

    Also dogs can be chick magnets. Take it to your local dog park and you will meet women.

    Also agree with what others have said regarding quitting weed. It won't help your depression any.

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    Default Re: Have any of you guys ever felt like you had no life?

    Quote Originally Posted by FatComputerNerd
    Get a dog.

    Good for companionship, can play fetch instead of throwing a ball in the air to yourself.

    Also dogs can be chick magnets. Take it to your local dog park and you will meet women.

    Also agree with what others have said regarding quitting weed. It won't help your depression any.
    I didn't start weed because I was depressed and to be honest I am not even depressed I just feel so empty.

    Dog seems like a good idea actually

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    Default Re: Have any of you guys ever felt like you had no life?

    If you want to make friends, just go to places where you can actually meet them. Play basketball for example, talk to the guys playing, boom you can make some friends right there. Its not anywhere near as hard as trying to get a girlfriend, which is your other problem.

    Forget smoking weed man, it doesnt help at all. It just makes things worse.

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    Default Re: Have any of you guys ever felt like you had no life?

    The biggest fear for me ever would be being alone...


    If you feel that way, I would do some activities like alan said... Gym is pretty cool, if you go through with it it will also attract chicks... I dont know, play a sport in a team or something?

    I understand the "missing out" part where you could do so many awesome things..

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    Default Re: Have any of you guys ever felt like you had no life?

    Quote Originally Posted by MP.Trey
    Yeah sometimes, but then I just smoke another bowl and I'm fine with it.
    self-medicating.

    I respect that lifestyle. I'm a druggy fo' life.

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    Default Re: Have any of you guys ever felt like you had no life?

    Quote Originally Posted by sweggeh
    If you want to make friends, just go to places where you can actually meet them. Play basketball for example, talk to the guys playing, boom you can make some friends right there. Its not anywhere near as hard as trying to get a girlfriend, which is your other problem.

    Forget smoking weed man, it doesnt help at all. It just makes things worse.
    Brah I have loads of friends , but No close ones.. I'll go to community center which is a few miles away and try playing some basketball everyday seems like a good idea , but if its empty im screwed.

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    Default Re: Have any of you guys ever felt like you had no life?

    I have the opposite of you. I have too much life and I miss having no life and no girlfriend...switch?

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    Default Re: Have any of you guys ever felt like you had no life?

    Play ball.

    Ball is life.

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    Default Re: Have any of you guys ever felt like you had no life?

    Quote Originally Posted by TylerOO
    Play ball.

    Ball is life.
    Ball really is life man , whenever I play sports time flies by so fast and I feel so stress free ,,,, just hopin the community center isn't empty as ****

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