if *********ing is bad for you, is boning AKA boinking bad for you as well?
Dude.. it's more about manipulating your dopamine cycles.
Take a kid from Africa who eats a primal diet, doesn't jerk it, hardworking, and sees life as a struggle but goes in day in and day out and never really loses spirit or get depressed. He has to find a way to stimulate his brain and is not used to an abundance of pleasure and convenience at his disposal. He needs very little but can give a lot.
Take a kid from America who can easily, easily.. and regularly does cocaine, watches lots of creative porn, jerks off, drinks, plays some high intensity videogames, eats lots and lots of high sweets, wins here and there, sleeps. He NEEDS a lot to stay sane.
His lifestyle would be topsy turvy maelstrom of emotions and his lows would be so low and his addictions would slowly lose their potency...and he might contemplate suicide (srs)
Put them against each other in the rat race and measure each other's reported quality of life and happiness and stability levels..
Exagerrated example but busting a nut really. Difference is sex offers a lot more.. intimacy, companionship, releases of oxytocin, a feeling of accomplishment, bonding, and other things that are human needs. Not to mention sex itself is an exercise and something we all need, desire, and fight for.
bustin is like a shortcut. it's a cheatcode. It's like fetching the reward without playing the field properly.
Case in point. Green Hornet movie. Father vs. son.
So far I've got 4 days without jerking it, no alcohol, regular exercise, reading every night, and I just started my new internship on Monday. Feeling pretty damn good.
Dude.. it's more about manipulating your dopamine cycles.
Take a kid from Africa who eats a primal diet, doesn't jerk it, hardworking, and sees life as a struggle but goes in day in and day out and never really loses spirit or get depressed. He has to find a way to stimulate his brain and is not used to an abundance of pleasure and convenience at his disposal. He needs very little but can give a lot.
Take a kid from America who can easily, easily.. and regularly does cocaine, watches lots of creative porn, jerks off, drinks, plays some high intensity videogames, eats lots and lots of high sweets, wins here and there, sleeps. He NEEDS a lot to stay sane.
His lifestyle would be topsy turvy maelstrom of emotions and his lows would be so low and his addictions would slowly lose their potency...and he might contemplate suicide (srs)
Put them against each other in the rat race and measure each other's reported quality of life and happiness and stability levels..
Exagerrated example but busting a nut really. Difference is sex offers a lot more.. intimacy, companionship, releases of oxytocin, a feeling of accomplishment, bonding, and other things that are human needs. Not to mention sex itself is an exercise and something we all need, desire, and fight for.
bustin is like a shortcut. it's a cheatcode. It's like fetching the reward without playing the field properly.
Case in point. Green Hornet movie. Father vs. son.
lol great post
the sense of accomplishment offers the most striking and obvious difference. it's literally the difference between plan a and plan b. unless you've got a steady girl or a failsafe rolodox, the number one goal is to find a chick to bag... and if that doesn't work out, you wank. words really can't describe the gap between the emotional high of conquering and the emotional low of settling, it's ginormous.
actually it was edging that fked me anti-hero, i did it about four times in a row getting myself all worked up then letting it fall. then i put it away and was all proud. half hour later sitting in front of the computer, well... the angel on my shoulder was making so much goddamn sense but he just didn't stand a chance
i'll start again i think, i really would like to make it a month.
and obv i was exaggerating saying cox all that matters, other factors like those you listed and plenty you didn't are important, but the general point stands
godspeed brother bear
so you are reccomending to lower boinks per week?
How much boinking a week is acceptable in your philosophy?
How much boinking a week is acceptable in your philosophy?
not sure where how you got there from what i wrote. to me it seems entirely dependant on the person, where they're coming from, background, etc etc. i don't have a bachelors in wankonomics, pretty impossible question to answer generally
not sure where how you got there from what i wrote. to me it seems entirely dependant on the person, where they're coming from, background, etc etc. i don't have a bachelors in wankonomics, pretty impossible question to answer generally
yeah saw boink in the first question and wank in the second for some reason
i guess my answer would be as much as possible like anybody else, assuming it's not making you evade responsibilities and shit. i take it u're trying to get at something with this?
if you have to explain the differences between the feelings and benefits of sex versus jerking, safe to say that who ever you are talking to is a virgin.
if you have to explain the differences between the feelings and benefits of sex versus jerking, safe to say that who ever you are talking to is a virgin.
Quitting fapping is just too hard. It's like giving up soda for me. I quit for a day or so and then I'm in a store and that Dr. Pepper is right there. I'll be browsing the net and some sex related link will come up. Then I'm googling hot women.
If I could give up fapping and soda I think my life would improve a lot. I'd definitely try harder when I go out.
Quitting fapping is just too hard. It's like giving up soda for me. I quit for a day or so and then I'm in a store and that Dr. Pepper is right there. I'll be browsing the net and some sex related link will come up. Then I'm googling hot women.
If I could give up fapping and soda I think my life would improve a lot. I'd definitely try harder when I go out.
give yourself a cheat day. My girlfriend and I gave up some vices except for once a month.
after just two months of giving up soda I have lost about 7 pounds. The only exercise I'm really doing right now is walking around the block once or twice every few days so its not like I am working my ass off.
its crazy to think I was drinking so much of it but when I look back I had a Dr Pepper in my hand all day and when I went to bars I'd run through 5 or 6 Jack and Cokes on just an average night.
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