Is it weird that I have no interest in being in a relationship?

[1987_Lakers]

I'm in my mid 20's, I really don't care for being in a relationship, and it's been that way for some quite time. I feel for the most part I see women as sexual objects, I know it's wrong, but that's just the way I feel, I don't know what's wrong with me. I sometimes use women for sex and nothing more, the women I hook up with want to build a relationship and they get frustrated when they see I'm not serious, I just have a hard time building a relationship with anyone in general, all the close friends I have I've pretty much known since I was a kid. It's hard for me to let someone I just met into my life. Another thing that turns me off in being in a relationship is seeing how whipped the guy becomes and pretty much lets the woman control him, I have a couple of friends who are in relationships and for the most part they are losing their manhood, they see their girlfriends as mothers or something, it's weird.

Am I a selfish person for not wanting to be in a relationship?

[Im Still Ballin]

No you're nothing special. Been done before.

[SaltyMeatballs]

Nope. Some people don't wanna deal with all the girl drama and the part where you gotta pay... let's seeee... pretty much every ****ing thing there is when you go on a date! I haven't dated in about 2 years. The last girlfriend I had was a god damn psycho. I found that out when I refused to buy her a $200 purse.

[oarabbus]

I'm in my mid 20's, I really don't care for being in a relationship, and it's been that way for some quite time. I feel for the most part I see women as sexual objects, I know it's wrong, but that's just the way I feel, I don't know what's wrong with me. I sometimes use women for sex and nothing more, the women I hook up with want to build a relationship and they get frustrated when they see I'm not serious, I just have a hard time building a relationship with anyone in general, all the close friends I have I've pretty much known since I was a kid. It's hard for me to let someone I just met into my life. Another thing that turns me off in being in a relationship is seeing how whipped the guy becomes and pretty much lets the woman control him, I have a couple of friends who are in relationships and for the most part they are losing their manhood, they see their girlfriends as mothers or something, it's weird.

Am I a selfish person for not wanting to be in a relationship?

Nah. You ain't hurting anyone. As long as you aren't leading these chicks on, I don't see why what you're doing is wrong in anyway. But if you are leading these girls on just to get laid, yeah, that's selfish.

[Draz]

Good shit. No. Perfectly normal. Just get yours and work on yourself.

[Yoda]

Live in solitary like me you should.

[Lebron23]

Mid 20's to late 20's is the perfect age to start a family.

[Heavincent]

Mid 20's to late 20's is the perfect age to start a family.

Not in this day and age. Millennials are dead broke.

[KNOW1EDGE]

It's weird that you make a thread about it online and discuss this with strangers rather than talking face to face with another human being that you are friends with about it.

[Bosnian Sajo]

It's weird that you make a thread about it online and discuss this with strangers rather than talking face to face with another human being that you are friends with about it.

Strangers? Not really. For the most part we all know each other, know how to push each others buttons, etc.


Nothing wrong with bringing these kind of questions to ISH, it is a discussion board after all

[Jameerthefear]

It's weird that you make a thread about it online and discuss this with strangers rather than talking face to face with another human being that you are friends with about it.

This. He should have just made a Muslim thread or something.

[KNOW1EDGE]

Strangers? Not really. For the most part we all know each other, know how to push each others buttons, etc.


Nothing wrong with bringing these kind of questions to ISH, it is a discussion board after all

Strangers. Really. You don't know anyone on ISH.

Nothing wrong with it. OP asked us our opinion. I shared my opinion with him.

[Bosnian Sajo]

^stop assuming

This. He should have just made a Muslim thread or something.

Amen