Girlfriend wants to go to a frat party...

[Jameerthefear]

Should I allow it?

[Shogon]

She's already gone.

[Prometheus]

Should I allow it?

You should break up with her for asking.

I'm not joking. If she goes, she's going to cheat on you. If she doesn't she'll resent you for being controlling. The fact that she wants to do it at all means she's really not down for you. Break her ass and shake her ass.

[highwhey]

you should know the answer to this. tell her to let you do an@l and you'll let her go, then break up with her afterwards.

[Shogon]

You should break up with her for asking.

I'm not joking. If she goes, she's going to cheat on you. If she doesn't she'll resent you for being controlling. The fact that she wants to do it at all means she's really not down for you. Break her ass and shake her ass.

:applause:


you should know the answer to this. tell her to let you do an@l and you'll let her go, then break up with her afterwards.

:roll:

[Jameerthefear]

She's already gone.
Nah I don't think so. I don't think there's a reason she should go so I'm just gonna tell her no. It was her friend's idea. Her friend wanted her to go and asked her

[RRR3]

It’s not like you can stop her lmao.


Should you be ok with it tho? I wouldn’t be comfortable with her going if I was you.

[Jameerthefear]

[QUOTE=RRR3]I[B]t

[Shogon]

Nah I don't think so. I don't think there's a reason she should go so I'm just gonna tell her no. It was her friend's idea. Her friend wanted her to go and asked her

Prometheus nailed it with his response.

That aside... you didn't come here for advice.

You came here for affirmation. I hate when people ask for advice. They never want advice. They want affirmation.

**** off.

[Jameerthefear]

Prometheus nailed it with his response.

That aside... you didn't come here for advice.

You came here for affirmation. I hate when people ask for advice. They never want advice. They want affirmation.

**** off.
I was looking for advice. I was going to let her go now I'm not. It was her friend's idea.

[coin24]

[QUOTE=RRR3]It

[CelticBaller]

hell no

[Meticode]

Instead of saying yes or no, simply ask her how she would feel if you wanted to go to a frat party. That of which knowing there would be a ton of girls there drunk, high and looking to get laid.

If that doesn't shine a light in her head and she still wants to go for whatever reason. Even if she says, "I'd be cool with you going to a frat party." Then it's a lost cause.

She's knowingly putting herself in situations that make her vulnerable to making a mistake with you (cheating).

[Prometheus]

:facepalm

Telling her "no" is honestly the worst option. If you said yes, at least you would demonstrate alpha rendencies and/or trust.

Breaking up with her is the best move.

Telling her no will just make her either A- lie to you or B- resent you and think you're insecure.

[dude77]

any girl who would even consider going partying without her bf is suspect

[Norcaliblunt]

Best gimmick on the site by far

[Jameerthefear]

Told her no, she's not going now.

[imdaman99]

Good, tell her to calm her ass down. Anyone that goes to a frat party is looking for action. No one just goes to drink and 'have fun'.

[RRR3]

Good, tell her to calm her ass down. Anyone that goes to a frat party is looking for action. No one just goes to drink and 'have fun'.
True but most people just end up getting drunk.

[warriorfan]

How the **** did a pillow get invited to a frat party? There has to be some sort of story behind that.

[Shogon]

How the **** did a pillow get invited to a frat party? There has to be some sort of story behind that.

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[coin24]

How the **** did a pillow get invited to a frat party? There has to be some sort of story behind that.


:lol :lol

[AirTupac]

How the **** did a pillow get invited to a frat party? There has to be some sort of story behind that.


:roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: Ethered

[stalkerforlife]

How the **** did a pillow get invited to a frat party? There has to be some sort of story behind that.

:roll:

[Mr Feeny]

Told her no, she's not going now.

I'm with everyone here. She's still going. If not this one, then the next.

[LostCause]

You know what’s interesting

My girlfriend doesn’t even bring shit like this up to me. I don’t have to ask her. If it’s something she knows I wouldn’t approve of her doing, she just declines it. I hear from some of her friends that she’s declined going out to all sorts of bars and parties with them and she hardly ever says the reason is because of me. She just legit doesn’t want to

I don’t think your girl is a lost cause, yet at least. It really depends on the boundaries you’ve demonstrated. If they’re not defined and clear, then she’d ask you and going forward could respect it and she won’t need to ask again

If she already knows your boundaries and considered it anyway, or worse resents you for not allowing her to go, then yeah you’re in trouble.

[Mr Feeny]

[QUOTE=LostCause]You know what

[TheMan]

Serious question, do all frat parties end up as one big ass orgy?

[Prometheus]

Serious question, do all frat parties end up as one big ass orgy?

More like each bedroom gets action, a handful of people get alcohol poisoning, 5-10 people get kicked out, and the campus police keep themselves busy busting any other parties in town so the frat has free reign to do their thing.

Oh and a bunch of ugly dudes go home and jerk off wondering what they did wrong and why they didn't fit in.

[Mask the Embiid]

How the **** did a pillow get invited to a frat party? There has to be some sort of story behind that.
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[bladefd]

How the **** did a pillow get invited to a frat party? There has to be some sort of story behind that.

I laughed so hard that I had tears in my eyes streaming down my face and almost choked on my saliva.. :roll:

Jam - you need to take care of your gf and yourself. It's a huge red flag for 3 reasons: 1) she feels the need to ask you for permission, 2) you told her no as if you owned her and 3) you are asking on ish what to do. She obviously feels the desire to suck off other guys - say no enough times and she will go do it anyways and it will be more than just blowjobs. You and your gf are in huge trouble.

[Hawker]

Why wouldn't you go to the frat party with you and drink all the beer there? Do a beer bong? Take a jello shot? Have a good time maybe? Be the token black guy?

[rufuspaul]

you should know the answer to this. tell her to let you do an@l and you'll let her go, then break up with her afterwards.


This is the correct answer.

[nathanjizzle]

no? duh? the real question is if you should give her the side eye for even considering this as reasonable.

[egokiller]

Best gimmick on the site by far

Yep. I'm told OP is a confirmed 40 year old bald pedo. :lol

[TheMan]

More like each bedroom gets action, a handful of people get alcohol poisoning, 5-10 people get kicked out, and the campus police keep themselves busy busting any other parties in town so the frat has free reign to do their thing.

Oh and a bunch of ugly dudes go home and jerk off wondering what they did wrong and why they didn't fit in.
Ah, so basically like any party where a bunch of teens and early twenty sonething year olds hang out...

[rufuspaul]

So basically she and her friend want to get roofied and date raped by a guy named Tripp who calls everyone brah and won't shut up about crossfit. Nice.

[Draz]

Are you fine with her being double @naled? If so sure. I'd dump the fck outta her for even asking me if we both had an understanding it's a serious relationship. Young girls are h0rny. They party, cheat, get fcked until their walls couldn't grip a fist.

Keep it pushing

[ItsMillerTime]

any girl who would even consider going partying without her bf is suspect

/thread

[red1]

OP you need to start talking to other chicks ASAP. just make sure you have a lot of female friends if you know what I mean.

[hold this L]

You should break up with her for asking.

I'm not joking. If she goes, she's going to cheat on you. If she doesn't she'll resent you for being controlling. The fact that she wants to do it at all means she's really not down for you. Break her ass and shake her ass.
This escalated quick :lol